Sunday, April 30, 2017

28TH WEEK IN TONGA, TU'ANUKU

It's been a long time!

MANN!!  It's been so dang long since I've been able to get out a group email guys!  The internet is dead in our area so we have to come up to the area next to ours and then it's hard cause these Elders have to net too.
Anyways.. transfers were yesterday and I get to stay!!!  My comp E Hosea is getting transferred back to Tonga though smh. That guys is such a stud and I learned so much from him.  Especially about loving the members and the people that you serve.  His goal is to go home with nothing in his suitcase.  He wants to give everything he can away.  So dang cool.  My new comp is Elder Harmon!  I new him from my Ha'apai days, and he is a way good missionary as well!  I've been blessed with studs for comps!!  Way pumped to be staying in Longomapu though, only downside is we don't cover Tu'anuku anymore (the little village we would visit like everyday, it's like a 45 min walk from Longomapu).  The members there were so nice and so willing to help out.  I'm gonna miss my man Spencer!!!  Spencers the man from NZ that would give us fruit everyday and always make us food and take us for safari rides in his jeep through the back roads of Longomapu.

So, right now we are working towards this little family that I mention earlier, It's a mom with 3 little girls.  We have taught them a few times and they accept and believe the message, the only thing is, the moms boyfriends doesn't want her to be baptized.. smh.  So we are trying to help build up her faith enough to want to make the decision to follow her Savior or at least to let her kids.  Other than them, we have about 3 little kids who's parents are willing to have them baptized, we just haven't had to opportunity to teach them yet.  Literally, that is how we get teachings down here in Tonga.  The village is small enough, just about everyone has had an opportunity to hear from missionaries, so we meet with members and then every once and a while they will say, "Hey, I talked to Mele and she said it's ok to baptize her son." So than we will teach him. That's how it's been the last transfer.  SO, with having a new comp and I myself not knowing everyone in the area, I think we are going to go and talk with EVERYONE.  I'm pretty determined now, I'm going to make sure that everyone has had missionaries talk with them.  Especially... a white missionary.  PALANGI POWER BOY.  If people won't accept us for the message, they accept us because we are 2 white people from overseas.  Everyone here is pretty dang nice though.  They let us down easy, by saying "Oh, we are busy right now" we will ask about tomorrow "Oh, we are busy then too" what about next week? "Oh, very busy then also" It's pretty frustrating.

Here's a little Tongan culture for you all:

Kai Po (kind of like selfish eating) Is literally an abomination here.  There is nothing a Tongan hates more that if people are eating something and they don't offer to share it or deliberate try to hide it for just them to eat.
SO, I'm going to tie it into the Gospel:
We have the biggest blessing to know of the Gospel and to be able to partake of the fruits that come from it!  Let's not "Kai Po" and take all the blessing for ourselves.  Share it like a Tongan shares his food!
I'm going to have to work on that analogy..

Hope everyone is still kicking and happy as can be wherever your at!  Love you all so much!  Sorry to anyone I haven't been able to reply to,  I'll try to do better this coming transfer so shoot me an email so I can know how everyone's doing
Connor in some car
Connor with his dirty laundry 
 Get this thing off my tongue
 I love these skies
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OFA LAHI ATU

-Elder Kalanite


Sunday, April 2, 2017

25TH WEEK IN TONGA, TU'ANUKU

Week 2 Vava'u

Hey guys! Vava'u is tika! Not gonna lie,  I lost my planner which is where I had written down everything that's gone on this week so I'm going off the top of my head this email!

So that one area that we cover, Tu'anuku.  To give you guys an idea of how many people there are baptized.. yesterday we were at the ward council meeting and we were going over a list of everyone's records that we have and I'd say its about 90% of the village. We even had some preachers for other religions on the list...  But 90% is not 100%! We will keep working!!!

We met this little family of 3 little girls and their mom. The little girls are so dang cute and remind me so much of my nieces.  We would go and visit them and take them candy, then we finally got the opportunity to teach them.  We taught them the first lesson and it went awesome!  We asked them to just read the Introduction of the BoM.  When we came back, as soon as the girls saw us, they ran and grabbed the copy of the BoM that we left them and came and sat down ready to learn more.  We have high hopes with them!

We taught a lesson this week to 4 people that we are pretty sure were high the whole lesson...

Man the work is still very slow though.  We plan every morning to go and talk to all of these people and then most of them turn out not being able to talk to us, then we get home at night and feel like we did all this work and walked a ton of places and realize that we were only able to meet with 2 or 3 people.  It's definitely a little discouraging sometimes.  But I know there is a purpose for me serving out here of all places!

DANG! So cool to hear that there is going to be a temple built in my home city!!!!  That is such a huge blessing for us!!

Love you all and have an awesome week!

-Elder Grant